"Not Over Him"
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When
you’re not over him, when you can’t let go of the man who once
featured front and center in your life, it can make you weepy and
nostalgic for
what you had together. And that is the first, fat, red flag – your ex
obviously
had more of a hold over your life than you had over it yourself. Our
guess is
that you lost yourself in the midst of the relationship you two had
together –
and that’s preventing you from successfully cutting all ties and moving
on.
It’s making you feel like there’s never going to be another guy for
you.
Have you found this page without completing
our quiz, Are You Really Over Him? Take
the quiz
to find out if you’re still hooked on your ex.
More About Holding on Too
Tightly
Someone once said, “Nostalgia is a seductive liar.” That’s the trap you
may be stuck in right now. You can’t get over the good moments that you
and
your ex had together. We’re sure there were plenty of them, but there
were
obviously not-so-good moments too, otherwise you wouldn’t be broken up,
right?
Whatever
the reason for your break up, the fact that you’re not over
him may signify that you were a little too deeply involved in the
relationship.
When you let your life revolve around a man, when you count on him for
your
sole happiness, when you think of him more often than you think of
yourself,
there’s a problem. And when a relationship ends, you’re left with
nothing but
memories, and none of them resemble who you truly are.
DIO
Dating Tip:
Time to
recapture the essence
of
Y-O-U. You can’t find someone until you find yourself. And
you have to let
go of someone before you can find someone else too. Giving up the love
that
you’re still super-attached to may feel like a betrayal, but listen up
– by
staying mired in any shoulda, woulda, couldas of you and your ex, the
only
person you’re betraying is yourself.
When
you’re not over him, that means something is holding you in a
static mode. You’re scared of starting over with someone new. You fear
the
future, but we say, “Embrace it!” Having something, and someone, to
look
forward to is one of life’s greatest pleasures.
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