"Want Him Back"
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You want him back, but you kinda give new meaning to the word
“stalker.” Desperation never got any woman anywhere, and we’re afraid that’s
what your behavior may be looking like to your ex right about now. Does he run
in the opposite direction at the sight of you? Does he avoid your calls or
never return them? We know you love this guy, you may even think of him as your
soul mate, but – and this is brutal honesty – just because you still adore him,
that doesn’t mean he still feels the same way about you.
Have you found this page without completing
our quiz, Are You Really Over Him? Take
the quiz to find out if you’re still hooked on your ex.
More About Trying Too Hard
When you want to be in a relationship with someone, when you want him back so badly you can taste it, you can convince
yourself of practically anything – that they actually do love it when you call
them five times a day, even if they say they don’t; that you’ve been through
too much together for them to just “throw it all away”; that he just needs a little
space and then he’ll come back to you professing undying love.
Love is blind, and that’s not always a good thing. Being so overwhelmed
by what’s in your heart can leave you oblivious to reality, particularly after
a break up.
DIO Dating Tip: Whenever
it comes to him, think twice. Picking up the phone just to let him know you’re
thinking of him? Put the receiver down. Texting him just to say hello? Don’t
hit send. Composing an email that’s pages long? Close that box. Checking out
his status on Facebook a few times a day? Delete him as one of your friends.
These tactics may seem harsh and permanent – that’s what they’re meant to be.
Now is the time to start ripping off those band-aids with full force so that
you can move on –
this is a good thing. We promise.
You need to face the fact that you’re broken up. We understand that you
want him back, it’s tough to let go, and it’s painful to imagine all the
grieving you have to do. No one ever said breaking up was easy, least of all
us. It’s a bitch, a nightmare. It’s responsible for crying jags and moments of
utter immobilization but here’s the truth – when you break up with someone, the
possibilities about your new life as a single girl are endless.
Think of the delicious evenings you’ll have slobbing around and
watching chick flicks and eating pizza just the way you like it. These aren’t
moments to dread – they’re moments to cuddle and appreciate. They’re moments
when you get closer to the real you. Once you embrace life as a single woman,
you can rebuild yourself, think about what you want in life and in a partner,
and then go out there and get it. Before pleasure comes pain, so stop putting
it off any longer and quit holding on to the past – nostalgia is only
worthwhile when you’re thinking about the Barbies you used to play with or the
heart-shaped pancakes your mom made for you on your birthday.
We guarantee that the closer you get to yourself, the less likely
you’ll be to want him back. That may sound like a horrific prospect at this
point, but self-sabotage
is actually the greater sin. Don’t let it happen to you.
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